Real Reason You Self-Sabotage
This is the MISTAKE people make with self-sabotage.
Sabotaging ISN'T you screwing yourself over.
The reality is...
You’re actually getting what you want!
You see, there isn’t just one YOU inside you.
There are multiple you’s with conflicting wants and desires.
And although one you might have a strong desire for something, and be working hard for it...
Another you might not want the attention or change having that desire might bring.
And so that part sabotages "you"...
And ends up getting WHAT IT WANTS
It’s hard to imagine “you” don’t want the thing "you" actually want.
Unfortunately, it’s the complex nature of the brain...
One part of you can want something, but another part not want it.
The part that doesn’t want it, doesn’t tell you that it doesn’t
It simply works in the background to make sure you fail.
Knowing this can help you better understand your true reasons for your sabotage.
So you can take a closer look at your actions when things go wrong.
Are you truly failing, or are you getting what you want?
Answering this can help you break the cycle to make choices that truly align with your goals.
Kam